What if millions of Possibilities are available to you? Why don't you see them?
Ask yourself this... what is it that you want to achieve or have in life? Is it important to you? are you committed to making it happen? Are you having trouble making it happen?
there is something that is holding you back from accomplishing what you want to do. Do you complain about not getting what you want?
Everyone, in every walk of life, has complaints. We all experience things that irritate us, anger us, hurt us, resist us, or just don't go as per our expectations.
When you complain; you are letting the very thing that you are complaining about have power over you.
In a book called The Power of Now; Ekhart Tolle wrote :
" See if you can catch yourself complaining in either speech or thought about a situation you find yourself in. What other people say or do, your surroundings, your life situation, even the weather. See if you can catch yourself complaining. For to complain is always non-acceptance of what is and it invariable carries an unconscious negative charge".
Complaining is a method of putting yourself in a powerless position. When a person complains- they make themselves a victim- and are not owning the result or the actions they took or did not take that created the result.
Consider this; If you are committed to making something happen or to achieve something in your life- you do what ever you can- over any and all obstacles to make it happen. If things are not the way you want it - you adapt and push through and on toward your goal. Period. That is commitment!
Don't make yourself a victim. When you complain you are doing just that- and resisting you dreams & goals and the commitment you made to making them happen and to yourself ! Your Commitment to yourself is to give yourself what you want and deserve. When you utter or think a complaint you are negating your dreams!!!! YOUR COMPLAINTS NEGATE YOUR DREAMS AND GOALS.
Let that Sink in!!!!
Complaining is a form of giving away your power! Your are;
a)crushing your desires by negating them; and essentially saying that they are not worth fighting for - and your are not worth the effort to make your dreams come true.
b)You are giving your victimization priority over getting what you want. so you will need to ask yourself- are you really committed to the goal? If you are, put the goal as the priority- not the complaint.
c) You negate your own power and let the problem be more powerful than you.
d) It is creating a mindset that says you are not worthy of receiving the goal- and going against the dream of having that wish fulfilled.
e) You are creating a imagined Drama! You are making a problem out of a mole hill- when it is not really a problem at all! You create a Block and block yourself from getting what you want!! Get out of your own way!!!
I realize that some of these may be repeated a few times- That is because sometimes explaining it from a different angle helps to make the concept click with you- and you see it and how it affects you. Also, there are subtle aspects or facets that may be similar- but are also just as important to distinguish!.
Complaining has no positive effects. it is a lose; Lose;LOSE situation! You have three choices; you can leave the situation; change the situation; accept it as it is; and realize that you have the power to dissolve the complaint that does not serve you in any way.
I challenge you to catch yourself in the complaining, and consider- what are you not willing to make a commitment to- and are deflecting the blame for?
Ask yourself these questions: What am I really complaining about? Find the real source of the complaint- what does it stir up ? and what you are not willing to act on?
When you are able to get the complaints out of the way- so they don't distract you- and you face the feeling or thought courageously that which the complaint is actually attempting to mask or deflect attention from- you will be able to see the possibilities when you eliminate the cloudiness that was caused by complaints.
Try it and see what you begin to notice..
here is to your Courage!
Questamaya
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